So Yesterday

BAD DAY!

2012-01-30T22:09:00.003+08:00

had 2nd round Tuan Bai today with classmates.

HOUSE VISITING - Flash back..

1. 10am, gather at Chih Ping's house
- donated some $$ to Ann Qi.

2. Pauline

3. 三角路，台湾排骨面
- take out my purse and pay for my food.

4. Hui Lin

5. Robin
- spotted biawak hiding behind the 土地公 altar,
guys chasing it out ; girls ? legs up on the chairs..

6. Wei Hao
- Aunty opened 法政先锋3 , hooked to it for awhile~ after that only start moving to the next house.

7. Teck Chong
- Ah Pok bought a RM41 "Lao Sheng" from Sushi King, lao~~ arh~
- "Everyone please pay back RM2 to ah pok.. "
- Start digging out my purse, and realize that
IT'S GONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

After eating I put the purse into my bag and I didn't even take out my purse at all for the following house visiting..

Really couldn't understand..

macam mana boleh hilang!?

Friends called back their homes to check whether it's dropped in their houses.

The car I sat for the whole day...

All said :" Really sorry.. can't find.. "

IC, Driving license, ATM cards, Cash..

ALL INSIDE MY PURSE.

Called to CIMB & Maybank to freeze my account.

CIMB

-very very bad customer service!!

-called for dunno how many times ad, still no one picking up the call.

- " CIMB CS, Y U NO PICK UP MY CALL when I need you urgently!? "

Maybank is much better, one call, and there's a CS officer on line =)

Dad nagging at me =((

My last hope. Taiwan mee shop.

Hope the boss will keep it for me if they really found it.

Or anyone who found it dropped at anywhere, please, kindly return it back to me.

please.come.back.to.me.

don't.leave.me.alone.

I'm really worry..

T-T

2012 U6P1 团拜

2012-01-29T16:43:00.005+08:00

This year's tuan bai, almost All attended =)

except for 3 person : Ervin, Ah Lian, Yew Ming

*hope next year we'll have a full attendance!! ;)

1. Mr. Kua's house

the guys~

the girls~

the girls - take 2; eyes closing. but still love it. =D

2. MacD for lunch

spotted =P

3. Mr. How Wan Sheng's house

4. This year, we have 8 cars in total !!

take 1 ;

take 2 ; jumppp~ =D

5. Pn. De's House

our S.H.E from u6p1~ THEY ARE BACK !!!!

Ben trying to kiss Jon Wyn while he was sleeping~

6. Ikan Bakar Dinner at Alai

7. 10pm Movie at GSC DP

Happy &

Memorable

Gathering

His 21st birthday

2012-01-22T11:47:00.006+08:00

Here's the present, photo calender.

*looks a bit cacat tough =.= *

KS recommended this place for the celebration,

the uncle bar~

that's how we name it =P

Happy Birthday Big Guy (:

P/S : Tomorrow is CNY and sad to say, I'm having that bloody 酒沫 again =.=

This time is all over my neck. Itchy~ no more fun.. T-T

18th Jan

2012-01-22T10:45:00.002+08:00

went to hang out at Sutera Mall

after finishing our last paper

Lunch @ life cafe - Yi Chia, Pui Feng & Kai Xi

the za bo next door - Zi Wei ~ xD

2nd from the right = Yi Ying

Fyi, all those statues are made by polystyrene!!

C.O.O.L~

Haaaiihhh shall be the title

2012-01-16T18:06:00.004+08:00

As you can see, the title speaks of _ DISAPPOINTMENT

Didn't manage to finish my Valuation paper just now.
I guess AT LEAST 35 marks G.O.N.E

15 marks for calculation part.

20 marks for essay part.

not enough time. it's only 2 hour. but we need to do hell lot =.=

Others manage to try and write something, which was better than me who wrote like... nothing?

Can't blame others but myself...
That kind of “没有到最后一分钟，是不会有动力” de attitude...

Still couldn't get rid of it~ >.<

Was in a happy mood, counting down at the days to go home.

And yesterday I was so glad that,
" finally~ tomorrow is the day!! after tomorrow, the days I'm going home is nearer!! =D "

Now?

CNY mood.. semua hancur kecai.

no more mood for the time being

I need time to recover, to change my state ;
and prepare for THE LAST BATTLE !!!

Christmas

2011-12-26T10:21:00.002+08:00

First time in Johor - JBGC

CHRISTMAS .

CAROLING . PRESENTS !!!

Different but FUN experience C:

Aaron's special edition -

Ginger Bread Hawaian Bikini Girl

from Emily

My Presents!! =DD

Revealed~ =DDD

Thank you people

have yourself a

Merry Little Christmas

Good Days ;)

2011-12-23T20:01:00.007+08:00

16 Dec, Friday

Lecturer did not turn up after one hour.

So, we decided to skip that day's Build Tech class

While waiting for her to come~

Kai xi = the snow white !! xD

Zi Wei

Bought a cup of hot coffee and enjoying it outside the library~

Shu Ping

22 Dec, Thursday

‎[The Malaysia Book of Records]

Project Title: The Biggest Painted Logo On Recycled Egg Trays in Malaysia

The team, setting up for this mini helicopter to fly!!

Launched~

Datuk inserting the last piece..

Lucky me & zi wei, we got :

- Cheap mixed rice with vege and fish, cost only RM3.50 !!

- Free note book, biodegradable pen, file, badge

Got Tang Yuan from my super senior too =)))

THANK YOU VERY MUCH LE!!

23rd Dec, Friday

Before the test starts, we had the "exchange-gifts" session

*for early christmas celebration*

*wondering ~ do u like my present? =D *

Build Tech presentation & test after that~

Test.. er.. did BADLY xD

Presentation ? Received positive feedback from out lecturer =DDD

Awaiting assignments to rush : Ethnic & Law....................................

PEOPLE~

I ALSO WANT TO BALIK KAMPUNG !!!!!!

T-T

pray hard that 29th

LAW CLASS CANCEL~

>.<

2011-12-13T20:58:00.002+08:00

Proud to show you

My braces + "almost straighten teeth" !

=.=

Skipped 2pm class and joined

Navigate Your Career workshop today

Why join this workshop ?

1. Intro to Real Estate class is quite boring actually =P

2. We were provided with the exception letter to skip class

3. Admission was free

4. Free T-shirt for each day (until 15th Dec)

5. Certificate from MISC - Malaysia International Shipping Corporation

6. Goodies bag~

Topic for 13th Dec : Personal Mastery & Emotional Intelligence Module

One of the task :

As a wedding planner,

design a 3D model for the wedding place,

following your client's need.

P/S : Client's need is ALWAYS CHANGING~

Here's the final product for every group

Group 1

Group 2

Group 3 (winning group)

They managed to fulfil and meet all the client's need

Group 4

Group 5 (my group >.< )

Simple lessons of the day :

1. Motion creates emotion.

eg . Don't wait to feel good. Do something in order to feel good.

2. Manage your states (Glad, Sad, Scared, Mad)

eg. by words, intonation & action

3. There are no unresourceful people,but only people with unresourceful state.

4. Bad judgement > Experience > Good judgement > Success

Assignments... study week coming soon~ then FINALS....

2011 FGHT - Faculty Night

2011-12-03T15:44:00.005+08:00

Theme : Party like a Rock Star

Before leaving, gathering at our college

Beside the pool

Playing with carmen's BIG SPEC xD

camwhoring in the toilet with ZiWei & Carmen!! LOL

of weirdness....

with my love-CP

SGHP juniors and seniors

Middle 2 person = This year's rock King & Queen

Chammak Challo~ ohh hhoo~

Go gaga with Bad romance

Nobody nobody but us!!

Group 4- the winning group =DD

Had lots of fun for during the fac night

AWESOME MEMORY !!!

Check out my fb for more

tagged-photos-of-the-night

;)

Padini Year-End SALES

2011-11-27T11:22:00.004+08:00

Planning to find my outfit for the coming fac night, theme : party rock

Went to DP and find out that Padini was having mega sales!!!!

Last for 3days only (Saturday - Monday)

Manage to "sapu" 4 shoes

[was planning to buy more actually =P ]

But I had not enough time to shop =(

[went there around 6pm]

Didn't manage to find a suitable shirt yet = Mission FAILED

and I'll be going back on Monday evening T-T

Every time come back, sure have something to busy with.

Tests & assignments

My ~~HOLIDAY~~

Anyway, here's what I bought =D

You Are the Apple of My Eye

2011-11-10T18:16:00.002+08:00

heard from friends that this movie is not showing in Malacca that soon. T-T

never mind then，I shall watch it in JB =D

Just managed to finish reading this book ;)

fyi, I don't really like reading books~

not my hobby obviously xD

Surprisingly, I managed to finish this one O.O

Strongly recommended

我们总是在这个世界上，寻找跟我们"连结" 的另一个人。
连结的方式有很多种，
有的连结是一种陪伴，
有的连结是一种相互取暖，
有的连结则是一种淡淡的默契。
而透过爱情而连结的伴侣，则是我们最向往的关系。

座位前，座位后。
男孩衣服背上开始出现蓝色墨点。
一回头，女孩的笑颜，让男孩魂萦梦系了八年，羇绊了一生。

一场名为青春的潮水淹没了我们。
退时，浑身湿透的我们一起坐在沙滩上，
看着我们最喜欢的女孩子用力挥舞双手，幸福踏向人生的另一端。
下一次浪来，会带走女孩留在沙滩上的美好足迹。
但我们还在。
刻在我们心中的女孩模样，也还会在。
豪情不减，嘻笑当年。

。。。而我的世界，不过就是你的心。

Photos spotted !

2011-11-09T23:13:00.005+08:00

FINALLY

after some time,

I manage to curi some pic from

other people's album

The Stage on that day

80%

designed + drawn + coloured

(using hand instead of brush for colouring)

by only ONE person - 3rd year senior
*He has been drawing for the stage for 3 years~

UTM GOT TALENT !!!!

Look carefully and

you'll see the

3D effect behind it

More pictures?

Check this out ;)

SHARING IS CARING

2011-11-09T15:57:00.006+08:00

A very early birthday present

Most probably wont be coming back on that day

Love it so much !!! Thank you =)))

People around me are starting to complain that my hair is too long~

so, here's a little bit of small changes..

Before & After

NICE. NOT NICE. er....... ok lo?

whatever ~

doesn't really matter la :)

Anyway, talking about my mid sem break

HELLO~ It's Wednesday now

what have you done so far?

Anything EXCEPT assignment and revision for the coming test!!!

and I'm going back on

this Sunday

G.R.E.A.T

.................

2011-11-05T14:25:00.003+08:00

Pesta Tanglung @ UTM
was really really BUSY that day!!

But it's Worth It =D

We received positive feedbacks on the food
&

Sales this year is better compared to last year

with seniors =) LOVE the most

REGRETS :

Didn't manage to take photos with my phone

There's a guy who helped our group to take it

BUT

So far.. I haven see any of those pics posted out
T-T

The stage was really AWESOME!!

too bad.. I can't find that pic =(

Performance & Sketch~

I totally missed it all........

PCC fair - PC & Chocolate Fair

in UTM

1st time trying to bargain the price with sellers

O.O
Although the discount was not much, but still acceptable la~

Chose this T for almost one hr~

not much choices left, sorry

Hope you'll like it >.<

*zi wei = my man of the day =P *

Bought a pair of white crocs too..

Our Fac Night Theme this year : Party Rock

I'm clueless of what to wear

It will rain..

2011-10-28T14:03:00.003+08:00

Cause there'll be no sunlightif I lose you, babyThere'll be no clear skiesif I lose you, babyJust like the clouds,my eyes will do the same if you walk awayEveryday, it will rain,rain, rain

Mr. Know It AllWell ya think you know it allBut ya don't know a thing at allYeah baby you don't know a thing about me

Desaru

2011-10-26T21:50:00.004+08:00

with JB HOPE church on

Deepavali morning

Gathering & Briefing

Sands...

Preparing for baptism of the 4 sisters

with Hazelyn

3 colours of the sea~

The girl next door~
Sweeet senyum TIGA!!

fail~~~ =.=

Group photo!!

seriously HOT & SUNNY day

I'm TANNED !!

oh-no =.=

Can't wait for 中秋
=D

This week !!!

hope I'm still healthy tomorrow
having small headache @.@

2011-10-13T09:03:00.004+08:00

While walking around our faculty,

we saw this...

CUTE aren't they?

most of the adult twins would prefer to have their own identities

BUT, not for this 2 twins here

Awwwww...

Can you feel their brotherly LOVE ?

well, I DO ;)

Comment about the weather here

morning is always that SUNNY ~

BUT

out of the sudden,

you can see heavy rain pouring down~

=.=

our valuation lecturer call this as

_The UNCERTAINTY of LIFE_

Result of not wearing a fully covered shoes

The part exposed to sun is now the

"chao da-ish" black colour

Can you see the 2 contrast ?
T-T
Ugly sial!!!!

How are you recently ?

I know you've been busy with studies & activities

Just wish to say a simple

HI - HELLO

to you..

Take care =]

Peek-a-Boo~

2011-10-07T17:34:00.008+08:00

Wow..

Looks like this thing is dead for quite some time since I enter Uni

@.@

*Kinda busy recently*

Life in UTM ?

so far so good

just pass up assignment, next week presentation + exam..

But I'm craving for CHINESE FOOD~

I miss mummy's HOME COOK food too !!

T-T

THE TIME TABLE

Lecturers

SGHP Group photos
*cost me RM12 T-T *

Random pic of my messy table ~

RM 4.50 - Butter Milk Chicken Chop Rice
Strongly Recommended !!
From Taman University's hawker stall

Today's lecture

Building Technology - AUTOCAD

*I'm not even at the beginner level =.=||| *

Besties ^^
From the right : Carmen & Chai Ping

Not taking any Ko-Q for this sem

But, Join-the-club

思舞团

where all the robots learn dancing together

>.<

工大中秋

Majority of the Chinese is in this club

This year's 圆游会 will be at 28 & 29 Oct

currently in 销售组

will be selling 茶叶蛋 & curry 鱼丸 on that day!!

We are required to sell

T-shirts & Gifts as well...

FIGHTING HARD TO REACH THE TARGET ~

We'll

"BLUE" up

UTM this year !!!!!

Sunday School Camp 2011

2011-08-30T19:29:00.007+08:00

THEME : SMALL LITTLE THINGS

Little Jadon with his dad's shoes !

During the demo..

GROUP 2

GROUP 3

GROUP 4

All 4 racing cars are prepare to go!

Gloves = Front tyre
Ribbons = Back tyre
Water = Fuel

Workers changing the tyres and refill fuel for the racing car..

Euan~

On your mark, get set, GO !!!

Time to check your car !
Do you have the 4 complete tyres on?
Any fuel leackage ?
"Hor!! Gloves did not fit in properly~ Deduct marks lo~"

HANDWORK

Shop shop

2011-08-27T23:25:00.010+08:00

ZARA
RM 39.90

From all the above,
I only bought this yellow shirt
=.=

Don't ask me why, I'll tell you,
I DON'T KNOW ~ xD

FOREVER 21

Love the green stripes shirt the most (RM79)
NO DISCOUNT!
not affordable for me
sad =((((

COTTON ON

Jumpsuit
Forgotten the price =.=
is between RM 69-79 (before discount)
[[ 30% discount whole store ]]

a little bit regret for not buying it

Anyway,
of course
I WISH to
buy ALL of them
T-T

Our shopping stuff
+
Hui Wen

P/S : Of course I bought other stuffs as well, but.. no pics taken =P
2 slacks(brown & green)
pink colour small bag
RM 10 T shirt
Hair accessories
Light blue high heels
Belt

that's all I think
=D

Missed our 7.30pm bus
Ran like mad to TBS when the LRT door opens up
Unforgettable experience...
Reached there 5 mins later
The bus just left
....

Luckily they allow us to sit for the next 8.30pm bus, wihtout buying another new ticket!
=]

初恋这件小事

2011-08-25T00:01:00.004+08:00

Saw Yun Kim shared this video on fb.

After wathching, I would give 8/10 for this movie.
Is a MUST watch thai movie!!
Don't worry~ they have subtitles provided ;)

Tears rolling all over.. (cried many times!)
like this, T-T

I know is silly but I just can't control myself. >,<
yayaya.. U may say that 我入戏太深 ~
Well, I admit it.

Come and watch it yourself, see whether is it that true =)

Num是一位初中一年级最最平凡小女孩，她的功课一般，体育也一般，更要命的是她的长相平凡得让人过目就忘。但这位平凡的女孩偏偏爱上了学校中最优秀，最善良，也最帅气的高一男生Zone。

身为校园中的风云人物，Zone从来就是女孩们的焦点，无论是功课好的，体育优的，还是长得美的，全校的女生都为他疯狂。Num明白自己根本无法与那些优秀的女孩们竞争，她从不奢望自己能和Zone交往，她只有一个小小的愿望，那就是Zone经过她的身边时，能回头看她一眼。

于是Num做了很多傻傻的小事，只为吸引Zone的目光。她不惜在晚会中扮丑只为听到Zone的笑声；申请加入舞蹈社却在筛选时被学长羞辱；练习吹奏管乐只为能靠Zone再近一点。这些小小的努力让Num在初三之时成为学校名副其实的风云人物。她变成了男孩们眼中最可爱，最温柔，和最值得追的校花级女孩。但Num心中依然收藏着她那小小的愿望，她希望这一次经过Zone的身边，他能看她一眼......

p/s : Maybe my EQ is just not that high~
so what? who cares anyway~
xD

U know what?

2011-08-24T16:57:00.006+08:00

Medical Check up Report

Of course I wont show you, my weight ~ xD

* For Uni's sake *
Bought a Baju Kurung Batik
from one of the shops inside Tesco.
Cost me around RM 69.90..
[[not cheap =.=]]

Anyway, 2C1

B.kurung Pahang

OR

B.kurung Modern

and finally I bought this..
Pahang !!

=D

BTW,

They are eating at JOGOYA !!

and I'm not there.. =.=

Just tighten up my braces agn~
that's why...
sad =(

Farewell gifts

2011-08-22T12:44:00.002+08:00

Bear from,
Cheeeeee
=D

Book from,
Sharonne Tan
=]

Thank you guys !
[[ appreciate it . appreciate it ]]
^^

那些年

2011-08-22T12:31:00.002+08:00

Been listening to this song for dunno how many times ad~ xD

I have to say..

This song is AWESOME !!!
love it.love it.love it
=D

Last day at Ismeca

2011-08-16T19:46:00.004+08:00

Introducing...
the following colleagues,

My HR Superior - Felicia

My replacement - Eunice

Finance Dept - Crystal

Finance Dept - Annie

Admin - Freda

From right : pretty Jin-Nee (Trainee)

Vision team !!

Lastly, my sit...

Bye Work & Hi Uni~

We still have, 16 days left before going off !

T-T

Shopping mood

2011-08-03T23:55:00.004+08:00

Shopping at AEON
with
Hui Wen~
(Shopping sifu)
for the 1st time..

and
IT WAS FUN !!!
=]

sapu lots of cheap stuff~

random..

bought this formal shirt - RM9 only!! =D
@Brands Outlet

Camwhore ~

>,<

Thank you..

Attn : I left... 11 days more in Ismeca =]

Farewell for them..

2011-08-01T13:28:00.005+08:00

Jennise & Yun Kim

Farewell dinner
@malim "Ah Mei" satay celup~

From left : Jzun Hwee, Jennise, Yun Kim, YB Teoh, Khim, me....

From left :
me(G&A), Jin Nee(Finance), Khim(MIS+Finance+Spare Parts),
Yun Kim(QA), Jennise(SCM), YB(Indus), Wong KS(Vision)

We are the..
T.R.A.I.N.E.E.S !!!
=)

Good bye girls...
All the best !
T-T

Happenings

2011-07-27T22:37:00.004+08:00

1. My replacement is coming in soon !! 2nd Aug to be exact =.=
Hmmnn.. hope I can cope well with her >,<

2. Uni stuff.. URRGGHHH... so annoying!
So many things undone~ let's check the list..

PIN from BSN ? Bought =]

Online application for PTPTN ?
CIMB account ?
Certs to be certified ?
The free RM400~ and forms to fill in ?
Many many UTM forms to fill up~

ALL = HAVEN.NOPE.WEEKDAYS.LEAVE?CAN I DON'T TAKE?UNSECURED!STRESS.BLUR~

Body Check Up ? Nope, BUT planning to do it this Saturday =D

Did I leave anything out ? What else ?

3. There's a new group opened up specially for UTM new comers.
Although it's quite helpful, but everytime when I receive notifications from that group,
it reminds me of how much people had done.

Whereas for me ?
There's hell lot of stuff that I need to catch up lor !!
Most of them are not working. BUT not for me... =(

My POOR time management summore le..
U know...
Spending most of the time.. doing those not-so-important stuff, especially FB~
Opppsss xD

4. 15th Aug will be my last day at Ismeca. =(
But UTeM trainee ? This Friday~
Haih...time flies..
Will be losing our lunch time makan buddyz soon.. ;(

5. Many ppl do ask about us..
But, both of us will always be giving the same answer..

"就这样咯... ^^"

Weird huh..?
I know...

Is released..

2011-07-15T21:48:00.004+08:00

Got my 3rd choice.

UTM

=DDD

Pengurusan Harta Tanah
(Property Management)

Faculty of Geoinformation Science and Engineering (FKSG)

Who are you going to work with ?

Most of the graduates have attached themselves as property managers, valuers, estate agents and property consultants in public sectors, for examples, the Department of Valuation and Property Services, Ministry of Finance, as well as in various States and Local Authorities. Some have attached themselves with corporate bodies such as the Amanah Raya Berhad, Malaysian Railway (KTM), Telecom Malaysia (TM), PETRONAS, Urban Development Authority (UDA), and Financial Institutions giving advice on property related matters. Others have ventured into property consultancy business or found employment with developers and chain superstores. The professional body governing their activities is the Board of Valuers, Appraisers and Estate Agents.

Career ?

The degree in real estate programme is aimed at those seeking a career in general practice surveying specializing on management, valuation and investment in real estate. Upon graduation, graduates of the programme can work as a valuer, property and facilities manager, project manager, land administrator, estate agent, property consultant, property investment adviser, auctioneer, and other property related careers.

For more information, click here.

Same UNI with :
Wan Sheen, Alvin, Liang Khai, Jon Wyn...

Others ?
yet to discover

xD

The Midnight Monday

2011-06-21T20:46:00.003+08:00

Reached home around 12.30am yesterday.

When I was very near to my house, an Indian guy,
was walking in my opposite direction.
I was like..
"Ok... well... just be careful~ it will be F.I.N.E.."
Opposite direction ma..

I'm all ALONE that time!

Then as I stopped my car infront of the gate,
(I have to go down -> open the gate.. coz is not an auto one >.<)
that guy suddenly
change his direction and walk towards my side!

Really panic & scared that time!!
Obviously I wont leave my car..

So, I just phoned to my lil bro..
and..
Great!
He DID NOT pick up my call! =.=
Really
h.e.l.p.l.e.s.s
T-T

Luckily mum came out after that to open the gate for me.
I have to say that she's really brave.
She just kept on starring at that guy.
And there's actually 2 of them sitting just opposite my house..

Now I finally understand why
parents always advice their chidren to come home earlier.
=(
Is no longer safe outside there.

Beware !

Fly me to the moon

2011-06-12T00:11:00.003+08:00

I'm currently hooked with this lovely song~

trying to find out the piano/guitar version =)

lappie

2011-06-05T22:39:00.002+08:00

Got my new Lappie today =)
Special Thx to
Ah liang & Song Yi for helping me to choose a suitable laptop,
Zf too for bringing me to collect it.

Model : ASUS A43SJ-VX137
Colour : Dark Red
Price : RM 1949
Warranty : 3 years
Additional : 20 Free gifts ~
Stall : StyGix

Worth the price ? I'm really not sure... xD

Trying to get access to the internet using my house's Wifi.
But, have tried to key in the password many times, still fail~

Now I'm connecting to my modem using wire =.=

Still google-ing ways to find out my Wifi password from my desktop..

T___T

e.m.o.

Let's runaway with me..

2011-06-02T20:27:00.003+08:00

Found these awesome songs in someone's awesome blog.. xD

So, just let's just share it out here !
:)

Like a bird needs the air,
Like a flower needs the earth to care,
I need you
Like the sun needs the moon,
Like an orphan needs an extra room,
I need you

Come on baby let's fly away to higher skies and watch the world go by,
It'll just be you and I
And when the storms will come sailing high I'll take your hand and collide it with mine,
And everything will feel so right

And like the stars need the sky,
Like a hello always has goodbye,
I need you
And like a child needs your touch,
I don't think I'm asking too much to be with you

Nobody said that love was easy,
But nobody said it'd be this hard
And I should have known from the beginning
Oh, that missing you is the hardest thing to do

So come on baby let's fly away to higher skies and watch the world go by,
It'll just be you and I
It's too late honey to say goodbye so take my hand and lets enjoy this ride

Like the sea needs the sand, My hand is desperate for your hand..

My U8 team

2011-05-28T22:39:00.010+08:00

Had a treasure hunt today, organized by the MYFC .

Screwed up my morning actually.
Supposed to reach there at 7.30am, ended up waking up at 7+ (over slept !)
left home at 7.30am =.= and reach there very late~
Everyone was waiting for me..
I'm really sorry xD

Arrived at DP, due to the fact that I'm already SO LATE..
Plus, I'm So KAN CHEONG,
So I just leave my car there without those parking coupons ~
Thus, kena-lah saman~

Apa boleh buat kan ? pay RM5 lo.. =[

Anyway, after the briefing _ later,students arriving _ gathered _
So, let's begin our pirate's journey !
Yeeee Haaaa~

Some station games_

Crossing over without touching those strings

Blow ~ Until ?
It BURST !!

Sing a song with this guy and
find a tourist to donate RM1 to him.
Then write "GOOD" in your hands.

Find a tourist again and
make them to read out those Malaysia's sejarah
in BM..

*They are actually from Hong Kong,
so..
they'll have to read out word by word for them *

Taking pics with the snake
&
for ppl who kissed it
they'll get 1000 points each~

*Pirates need to be BRAVE~

Q : What will you do when you're tired of shopping ?
Ans : A massage chair

After getting the 4 numbers, solve your code..
< Play with probability >

Our 5 balloons(indicating their life)
are all still save ~

At last..
We won the 2nd prize !

Counting the number of "Golds" we had
67 of them~

They all got their pressie~
eg. ear phones, bags, ROTA-s

But the Group Leader get nothing =(

So, 1 of my member actually gave me her ROTA~
xD

Remember those 67 golds ?
My members said :
" Kesian le.. no present for u..We give u all these la =) "
so kind of them..

But,
they are ALL Chocolates~
So,
I'll be FAT very soon.

U8
They are really cute
;)

Till then,
My Best Team
We shall meet again !

Thx a lot for your cooperation & support !
Love u guys =)

2011-05-16T21:04:00.002+08:00

K.A.N.A.S.A.I
*in a cute way*

is now
the word
that
I'll be
listening to
when
I'm
working..

Why ?

simply
because
.
.
.

my HR
uses this word

VERY
OFTEN

=X

Fyi

2011-05-02T22:27:00.002+08:00

Is supposed to be tomorrow. But..
I took my 1 day annual leave, and they approved. So..
Today is my last day at Sudong !

=))

No more shredding papers ~

Anyway, many will be leaving there as well..
Some feel stress, bored, unfixed rest days, etc..

New job will be at,
Ismeca Semiconductor
[[ is just opposite the Toyota factory at Cheng ]]

Not so sure what position I'll be entitled.
But most probably will be doing HR / Admin stuff
again ~

____________________________________________________________________________

Drank red wine on 30/4.
A cup i think..
The next morning, felt very itchy on my neck.
Then, the body =.=

"Jiu Mo" = 酒莫

Tried a traditional method, rubbing white vinegar on the skin,
and it'll reduce the itchiness~

But, I scream like hell when my mum put only a little bit on it !
=.=

Very painful
T__T
So I gave up on that method..
:p

Any other method that will heal ?

Is very very very
freaking freaking
I.T.C.H.Y. !!!

T___________________T

Meanwhile..

2011-04-28T19:22:00.004+08:00

Yesterday, my TL said :
" Since you're leaving soon, so you're not going to raise order anymore..
From today onwards, your job will be shredding those papers until your last day "

At the beginning, I was like..
Easy job ~ great !

But their papers are really hell lot..
imagine those papers, the height is like from the ground until my waist level.
then you x 10 !

*slightly less than this

I have to clear up ALL~
if possible

Well, shredding is really easy, the leceh part is..

You'll have to open up the cover,
1. Kneel down and adjust the plastic bag, so that it can fit more papers.
2. After a few seconds, when it gets full, you'll have to change the garbage bag again.
3. Tie it up and carry it to the side.

yup.. is this big!

So the whole process repeats approximately 4 times in 1 hour.
Had been doing that since 9am until 5.30pm and WILL BE doing that too for my next 5 days there~ =.=

Heard ppl saying : " kesian that girl~ "

Got 1 girl even said :
" stop doing it la.. you're leaving soon rite ?
no need so Piah de la.. go and take a rest. We all not doing, see u standing there doing the whole day also kesian you le.. "

Didn't even notice that
I got bruises over my knees
until my friend told me abt it.

Shoulders, back, thighs, knees..
semua sakit-sakit belaka
when I woke up this morning~
=(

No worries, I've bought Salonpas & Yoko Yoko
Hope it'll reduce my pain !!
xD

5 days more to go !

2011-04-28T18:55:00.004+08:00

Up to the hill

and people was coming down

Mr. tour guide

Kids was climbing too !

Entrance to the view of..

the sun set =]

[[ overall view from the hill ]]

Going down
to the road not taken
and
the journey continues
:)

Easter Conference @ Joo Chiat

2011-04-28T18:07:00.004+08:00

Result of over heating ~
producing
The Pie Terbakar..

Walking to a nearby mamak for breakfast

Shooting..
Dunno even know anything abt it :P

In Uncle Peter's car..

Ah Liang & Jadon~
xD

The launching

2011-04-25T20:36:00.002+08:00

SingTel
is going to launch the
iPad 2
on this
28th April.

So.. we'll have to start working OT then~

There's no Labor Day for us.. =(
But we have the Double-Pay Day =D

This week's schedule..

Tuesday = Off Day
Thursday = Rest Day

Saturday & Sunday
=
WORKING DAY !

:(

Anyway,
quitting very soon~
:)

Sunday School Picnic Day :)

2011-04-15T16:33:00.004+08:00

Venue : Pantai Puteri

Children playing with sands ~

Adrian and Drew making the boogie traps ~

Regina..

Cute little Jadon !
Destroying other people's castle ~
LOL xD

Guys playing the BOLA ..

J.U.M.P.

ok.. I look stupid =.=
I know !!!!!!
T.T

Enjoying
Bihun + Curry Chicken + Jelly + Banana + Keropok =D Best !

I love you..
you love me..
we are one

BIG FAMILY !

=)

the Escape

2011-04-11T22:25:00.005+08:00

REALLY

fall asleep in the car when I reach home =.=
weird huh? I know..

Today, my 1st working day at Sudong =)
The working place is OK..
at least the staffs there, they are more friendly..
Met new friends as well = Raymond & Faiz
Our Buddy = Kishore

We are in the MMPU Dept ,
which is the Dept that will have to perform OT THE MOST !!!
See those ppl leaving office at 12am ? yeah~ the MMPU ppl~

Off day ka.. Rest day ka.. Public holiday ka..

They'll still have to call u back for OT
Work like there's no day & night~

Handling Singapore's mobile line services..
Cease, activate their service line, etc..
Nah~ u wont want to know abt these things rite? =X

Lets move on, to our back office manager = Veronica
She treats us (the new staffs) well .. Smile pleasantly, asked our team leader to give us 30 min tea break... She is good right?

But when she left, our TL just asked..
" Manager very good right ? "
but with a very strict expression~
But I heard, ppl entering her office, sure get scolded most of the time =.=
So, don't judge a person by her look ! xD

This 2 weeks training period is our only chance to go back at 6pm..
After this...
the OT B.E.G.I.N.S !!!

I FEEL like ______ -ing !

2011-03-17T02:33:00.003+08:00

I'll feel very E M O every time after my work..
Dunno why.. Is complicated..

Driving back alone in the car..

Feel so empty..

I wish to :

Find someone to cry/talk to
Scream out really really LOUD ! to release all my pekchek-ness :D

But..that's just my "list"

Most of the time I'll be ending up at home, sleeping....
When I wake up, " what happened just now huh ? Don't care la.. Is dinner time ^^ "

You are paid.
So, doing your job well is your responsibility.
But, if you don't do well, then it is your fault..

Haih.. Anyway, my contract will end soon !
15 days left~ the countdown is getting nearer day by day

Story of Me & the cockroach

2011-03-17T01:33:00.004+08:00

Bought an Original Bubble Tea from Jonker..

Drinking happily..
Until I reach home, only notice this... =.=

Saw a brown thingy there?

I almost finish my drink !! still left with only this much..

Misai~

Legs + body..

Tada..
A small cockroach in my bubble tea !!!!!!

It took quite some courage for me to take these pictures actually..
Coz every time I look at it, I'll be thinking..
SHIT !!!! I DID NOT DRINK THIS THING IN !!!!

T__________T

The next night..

Was in toilet that time.
When I was pulling the toilet roll, that thing !
( this time, a really big one)

Suddenly FLLYYYY out of no where !!!
Imagine how panic I am.. mummyyy~ T.T
Woke my mum up and asked her to kill that thing ! lol

It actually went into my room.
Kept on searching but still cant find it.
So mum said : " wont be inside here la.. go and sleep.."

but..IF it is still alive... I definitely CANT SLEEP !
Look down, and there it is.. just below my bed !!!

Followed by the " hitting - chasing - screaming " session with our big cockroach

And finally, we won the battle ~

Oh nonono~~ =]

You'll have to be my target once you're detected !
hohoho~

Sorry.. but.. pls..
people I urge u..
SAY NO TO COCKROACH !!!!

I really hate them..pls forgive me...... =P

2011-03-09T10:05:00.002+08:00

8-March :

HR : "SY and Ellen arh.. today u guys not rushing back rite? Can stay back and help out ? "
* What else can we say ? We have no choice~ T.T "

The Designing dept only got this order on that day, and they have to rush it out within that day..
The company profile, which they'll be bringing it to KL this morning.

9.30pm , we called 1300 13 1300~
Claim from the company ! woohoo~ =p

11.52pm only leave the office~
My very first experience =.=

2011-03-09T09:32:00.002+08:00

4-March :
Around 4.30pm.. suddenly Datin called & ask all the staff to go over her house to help decorate it with Balloons~
If we din finish it, ALL cannot go back~ =.=
7.30pm finish decorating.. walked back to office..

Awhile more, another call..
"ALL who helped out just now MUST attend my daughter's birthday party arh~ =) "

Some ppl ad cabut before the call. So,they escaped la..

Walked there agn and saw some kids playing around..but we(the adults) were standing there doing nothing for quite some time (coz I think it's still early that time =.=)

After a long long time =D
only start eating cupcakes and 1 scoop of BR T__T
Then steamboat~

Finish eating..
Went upstairs, the Karaoke room..
* I have to say that their house is really big and nice!
Daughter's room : The "really" Hello Kitty decoration! *

What did the parents gave as presents to their daughter ?
Daddy & Mummy give u..
1. Angpau
2. Gold
3. Bear Doggy
( And they repeat the whole thing agn just for recording purpose =.= )

2 Cousins having birthday on that day too had RM 1000 angpau each..

Finally, the Game session!
I got a "help me~" bookmark.. (helpless!)

10.52pm, only manage to escape from there =p

What a day~

2011-02-21T17:46:00.003+08:00

what should I feel now..?
happy / satisfied / sad ?

Ah tam is right..
humans, we are greedy~
when you get what you've expected, you hope to get a better result =.=

Rewind :
woke up 6smtg this morning, fetched my bro to school..
seriously sleepy that time.. eyes keep on closing when I drive (dangerous !!)
so, straight away return to my sweeet bed once I reach home =)

"12 pm, still quite some time, now only 7.30am,
no need to set alarm I think still can wake up gua.. "

So.... sllleeeeeppppp.....weeirdd dreeeaam....
"what's the time now..? "

2.37 pm !!!!!!!!

I was like , OMGGGG !!! am I dreaming ? slapped my face.. NO, I'm NOT Dreaming !
I'M SOOOO LATE THIS TIME !!!

Checked my hp ( charging~ )
lots of missed calls & sms... =.=

Rushed back to school, Mr.Chin only manage to show me the result, but the slip is with Mr.CHU..
cant get it today~ coz he was still in a meeting that time T___T

Btw, Thx for all the wishes! =]

My result :
2 smtg.. close to 3.00 =.=

I heard lot of them getting > 3.00
Er Vin, 4 Flat wor... xD
congrats!

CONGRATULATIONS
again people !!!
^^

Time to start cracking your head on what courses to choose !
in 2 weeks time ~
@.@

2011-02-17T20:50:00.005+08:00

well, lets just start with TODAY !

1. love that feeling when you are being appreciated !

2. My HR is a bit weird today.. =.= she seems very happy & her mood is quite good..
=D hope that she will be in that good mood everyday~

3. no present T.T
(if I tell u. It's OK.. .nvm la =)
deep inside, I got sedikit upset de la actually.. sedikit saje, bukannya banyak =p )

4. today is the last day of CNY. there's an open house at datuk's house , and everyone was invited to makaaannn~
after makan, datuk & datin gave angpau agn =.=
Sad to say, I din manage to get one T____T
coz I was asked to bring the food to my colleague which is still working in the office..

so.. no more RM 40 ad lo when I return there... haihhhhh...

5. Monday is the day!! The time to face my tragic reality..

( I would change that to RESULT.. )

6. So many courses.. which one to choose?
min CGPA ? online registration ? faint~

7. staring at the comp all the time in the office makes me feel like fainting @.@

8. where to go after my 3 months contract ends ?
work at dunno where / enter MMU Jun intake /
part time teaching piano for kids ?

9. there's lots of rats in my office =.=
They actually caught 1 inside my drawer
( coz they normally keep lots of foods inside there)

10.

GOOD LUCK TO
ME & YOU !!!

That particular Monday should look like this..
=] Just Pray...

During The Rabbit Year

2011-02-07T15:19:00.010+08:00

At aunt's house,

Her name is also Chloe Chong xD , Eason Chong (little Brother)

CUTE !!!

Mummy adjusting the Ogawa chair for him to..

Enjoy his milk~

"Daddy.. bye bye~ "
Her dad cant manage to come back that day T_T

" Oppss.. "

At Kemendor, Jasin..
When the evening sun shines in~

Evening walk after the meal

A random one perhaps =)
Mr. NOT.. ?

Happy New Year , Rabbit !!
=]

2011-02-07T14:48:00.002+08:00

Everybody was like
looking down on this
when I enter the shopping mall with an umbrella
=.=
(Raining time ma..and I have to walk~ so, I think wearing slippers is better, rite? xD )

Was a little bit upset that time, so..
This cost for RM13.90 !

Met Vanessa =)

Thx a lot for the ICE CREAM !!

With his Iphone..

2011-01-24T19:55:00.003+08:00

My abandoned guitar..

During THOSE DAYS..

Asam from zf, to keep me awake~

I think that was a night before Maths paper ?

Wan Sim's notes~ for 1 paper only!
Thick ?

You know la..
Sometimes I'm too bored..
so..

Revision at Ykc's house..
Chemistry~

Kinda miss those days =)
sleeping at 1am then 2..slowly 3~
then it became worst.. 4 am !
terkena onglai's virus ad I guess =p

____________________________________________________________________

Mr.Robin's birthday on last Saturday
:D
Officially 20 !

____________________________________________________________________

Guess what is in these 2 bags.. ^^
Got this for FREEE today !!!

tadaaa...

The " Token of Appreciation " for the employees..
Soya drink, Apple juice & 2 red packets..

For those who participated in the "Staff Performance" for the Annual Luncheon..
You'll get
A set of BOTANICAL SKIN CARE for FREEE !!!
which cost around RM 200~

Our TU office group got 1st place summore..
RM500 for the group =))

BEST COSTUME award
The Finalist = rm 200
Top 4 = rm 500
for EACH person..

too bad.. Didn't get the rm 200 =(

BUT
our Dato & Datin, they were so kind.. =DD
EVERYONE there managed to get a RM200 angpau !
hahaha !!

Those who didn't want to attend,
Regret sial after they knew abt it.. =p

Lucky ?

2011-01-07T21:25:00.003+08:00

Just enter Melilea not long, and I have to take part in their Annual Luncheon on next Saturday..
FYI, all their staff have to take part in the performance.

yes.. is ALL !!
no matter you're old, new or on contract staff....
semua pun tak boleh lari~

For our TU office, we'll be performing NOBODY.
But we're not going to perform the whole actual dance, only taking part of it
and change it to the funny version :D

Luckily!!
Coz kayu dunno how to dance =(

colleagues said that my name is the same as their Dato's name..
Ellen = Alan ~
so they prefer to call me Joelynn instead of Ellen =(((

haih..end up.almost everyone in the office is calling me Joelynn except 1 aunty.
The cute, funny, kind ... Aunty Ong ! :D

I STILL PREFER
ELLEN_

I'm still a newbie there
who dun really know how to mix around with them =(
Hope things will change ! =p

I WANT TO CHANGE AS WELL !!
PEOPLE AROUND ME ARE CHANGING..
DIFFERENT LOOK
DIFFERENT STYLE
=]

BUT I'M STILL THE SAME..
OLD STYLE
=((

CNY IS COMING SOON!
BUT I HAVEN BUY MY CLOTHES~ T__T
FEEL LIKE I DUN HAVE ENOUGH TIME TO SHOP =.=

I'M TIRED..
after work..

dun feel like going out except
staying at home and have a niceee rest~~
;)

AWESOME Penang Trip !

2011-01-05T21:27:00.006+08:00

Went to Penang with my gang of bro-s :D
3days 2nights stay at Ws's dad's kondo~ (the highest = 31 floor ! )

K.song threw a buah amrah down from 31st floor !!!!!
calculate the impact yourself..

"nice" experience sitting Rapid Penang all the time xD
what to do..that's the cheapest transport we can afford ma.. =p

1st night :

sat bus to Gurney Drive for dinner
( I have to say ; Penang food is nice la !!! )

2nd day :

sat bus again to Batu Feringgi..
[the sea water there is just the same as our Kelebang beach =.= ]
played parachute, which cost RM50 per person T__T (but worth it~)

Had Thai food for dinner..
( ate > 2 bowls of rice =.= coz the food is seriously NICEEE !!! =)

3rd day :
played games in the house
run here and there
sampai....

the phone rings..
ring ring..

" Hello..I'm sorry.
But can u pls ask your kids don't run here and there?
I'm a bit pening la... "

and ws was saying
" Okok.. sorry sorry.. =.= "

So..we have to stop lo =(
and..
change game to..

TRUE or DARE ~ =DD

We have :
coke, 7 up, 100plus, cookies, gardenia bread, jambu, jambu air, Heneiken, oats, cornflacks, bovril ? and... I forgot the rest ..

Imagine yourself...
how we mix those things up..
and
DRINK IT !!!!!

feel so eewww....
especially for the oats =.=||

Sea food dinner again. =]]
and tau sa piah~

Thx a lot to ws's dad !! =]

sat the 11pm night bus and reach Malacca at 6.20am
Din really sleep in the bus

no time to rest after reaching home
then
8.30am
off to work~
my 1st day
as HR assistant (clerk) @ MELILEA..

T__T

BUT OVERALL,
YOU GUYS JUST MAKE THIS TRIP AN

A-W-E-S-O-M-E
ONE
!!!!!

=)

2010-12-28T11:28:00.003+08:00

Shopped from 2pm-10.30pm
DP & Aeon
with my family *winks*

manage to watched Narnia with my bro-s in between
well.. I think Narnia is better than Tron
my opinion saje la.. =p

can feel the pain in my foot now
=.=|||

But didn't bought much
was actually shopping for mum's stuff most of the time =p

DAD and BRO, they're REALLY PATIENT !
Imagine, guys shopping with girls but they're not really shopping for their stuffs..
some guys will just say : " you're shopping for girl's stuff not mine.. go shop yourself~ "

Right girls ?
xD

really sad that I found a nice shoe and it was really cheap but
only left size 8 =.= other size smaller than 8..
ALL SOLD OUT !!
RM 17.95 only le..
where can u find such cheap yet Nice shoe ?
T____ T

k-e-n-a-p-a dah tak de size aku~ !!!???

haih..
I' m sad.

=D

2010-12-26T00:47:00.002+08:00

Don't you think that
this is
COOL ?

=D

THE
Vintage_style

I HAVE TOO MUCH TIME TO KILL..
and my bro is saying that I'm LAME~
I'm sorry...
xD

What to do ?

2010-12-22T14:10:00.003+08:00

Everyone seems to have found their job for this looong~ holiday
But not for me =(
I'm rotting at home la !

have lots of plan to do actually, but now the mood is all gone..
only have those mood DURING MY EXAMS =p
haih..

am thinking how should I spend my holidays wisely =)
Is not really easy to find a good job though

Some of my friends just went up to Genting for work today
Can really save up lots of money if you're working there
Since you have nothing to do, so you'll have to
take OT most of the time = earning extra pay $$
The cold weather there, guarantee that you'll become snow WHITE after some time :D

Dad was asking me to work there too
But..
Imagine ~ ppl smoking, and you'll have to stuck inside there with them ?
Kinda torturing if you're not working at the NON-SMOKING casino.

and..

I
MISS
SCHOOLING DAYS
BADLY !!!

T__T

The Five Languages of Apology

2010-12-21T13:28:00.003+08:00

We are experts at wronging each other, but when it comes to setting things right, we all could use some help. New York Times best-selling author Gary Chapman teams with counselor Jennifer Thomas in an eye-opening study of one of the most important yet least understood pillars of human relationships: the apology. Surprisingly, saying “I’m sorry,” isn’t primarily a matter of will—it’s a matter of how.

So,what is your apology language ?
click here
for a simple test to check out yours today
=)

My results
10 = Expressing Regret
10 = Accept Responsibility

So,try to get my apology from this 2 ways and
well..
perhaps it's easier for me to forgive you
xD

Thus, the explanation to your answers..

Expressing Regret

“Expressing Regret” is the Apology Language that zeroes in on emotional hurt. It is an admission of guilt and shame for causing pain to another person. For those who listen for “Expressing Regret” apologies, a simple “I’m sorry” is all they look for. There is no need for explanation or “pay back” provided the apology has truly come from the heart. “Expressing Regret” is a powerful Apology Language because it gets right to the point. It doesn’t make excuses or attempt to deflect blame. Above all, “Expressing Regret” takes ownership of the wrong. For that reason, “Expressing Regret” is understood as a sincere commitment to repair and rebuild the relationship. The “Expressing Regret” Apology Language speaks most clearly when the person offering the apology reflects sincerity not only verbally, but also through body language. Unflinching eye contact and a gentle, but firm touch are two ways that body language can underscore sincerity.
Accept Responsibility

It is very difficult for some people to admit that they’re wrong. It makes them doubt their self-worth, and no one likes to be portrayed as a failure. However, as adults, we must all admit that we are sinners and that we will make mistakes. We are going to make poor decisions that hurt our mates, and we are going to have to admit that we were wrong. We have to accept responsibility for our own failures. For many individuals, all they want is to hear the words, “I am wrong.” If the apology neglects accepting responsibility for their actions, many partners will not feel as though the apology was meaningful and sincere. Many partners need to learn how to overcome their ego, the desire to not be viewed as a failure, and simply admit that their actions were wrong. For a mate who speaks this apology language, if an apology does not admit fault, it is not worth hearing. Being sincere in your apology means allowing yourself to be weak, and admitting that you make mistakes. Though this may be hard to do for some people, it makes a world of a difference to your partner who speaks this language.

Make Restitution

In our society, many people believe that wrong acts demand justice. The one who commits the crime should pay for their wrongdoing. A mate who speaks this love language feels the same way towards apologies. They believe that in order to be sincere, the person who is apologizing should justify their actions. The mate who’s been hurt simply wants to hear that their mate still loves them.

There are many effective ways to demonstrate sincerity in an apology. Each mate must learn the other’s love language in order to complete the act of restitution. Though some mates may feel a though all is forgotten with a bouquet of flowers, that may not necessarily work for all mates. Every mate should uncover what their partner’s main love language is (Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Acts of Service, Physical Touch, and Receiving Gifts) and use that specific language in order to make restitutions in the most effective way.

For a mate whose primary apology language is making restitutions, no matter how often you say “I’m sorry”, or “I was wrong”, your mate will never find the apology sincere. You must show strong efforts for making amends. A genuine apology will be accompanied by the assurance that you still love your mate  and have a desire to right the wrong-doings committed.
Genuinely Repent

For some individuals, repentance is the convincing factor in an apology. Some mates will doubt the sincerity of an apology if it is not accompanied by their partner’s desire to modify their behavior to avoid  the situation in the future.

It’s important to remember that all true repentance begins in the heart. A mate must feel poorly for hurting their loved one, and rely on God’s help in order to truly change. Admitting you are wrong creates vulnerability. It allows your mate to get a glimpse of your heart. The glimpse of true self is assurance that the apology was sincere.

One important aspect of genuinely repenting is verbalizing your desire to change. Your mate cannot read your mind. Though you may be trying to change inside, if you do not verbalize your desire to change to your mate, most likely they will still be hurt.

Many people have problems with repenting when they do not feel as though their actions were morally wrong. However, in a healthy relationship, we often make changes that have nothing to do with morality and everything to do with building a harmonious marriage.

It is also important to make a dedicated plan for change. Often apologies involving repentance fail because the person never set up steps of action to help ensure success. A person must first set goals for their change. After you create realistic goals, then you can start implementing a plan to change. Taking baby steps towards repentance instead of insisting on changing all at once will increase your chances of successfully changing your ways.

It is important to remember that change is hard. Constructive change does not mean we will immediately be successful. There will be highs and lows on the road to change. You must remember that with God’s help, anyone can change their ways if they are truly and genuinely ready to repent.
Request Forgiveness

In some relationships, a mate wants to hear their partner physically ask for forgiveness. They want assurance that their mate recognizes the need for forgiveness. By asking forgiveness for their actions, a partner is really asking their mate to still love them. Requesting forgiveness assures your mate that you want to see the relationship fully restored. It also proves to your mate that you are sincerely sorry for what you’ve done. It shows that you realize you’ve done something wrong. Requesting forgiveness also shows that you are willing to put the future of the relationship in the hands of the offended mate. You are leaving the final decision up to your partner – to forgive or not forgive.

Requesting forgiveness is not easy. It often leaves one vulnerable to the fear of rejection. Along with the fear of rejection is the fear of failing. Many people have a hard time seeking forgiveness because it means admitting that you have failed. The only way to overcome this fear is to recognize that it is very common amongst mankind. The commonality makes it okay to be a failure. It allows a stubborn mate to apologize to their partner and become a healthy individual.

Ultimately, it’s important to remember that there is a difference between asking for forgiveness and DEMANDING forgiveness. When we demand forgiveness, we tend to forget the nature of forgiveness. Forgiveness is a choice the offended party is supposed to make. Demanding forgiveness takes away the sincerity of asking for it.

Remember not to treat forgiveness lightly. It is something to be cherished and appreciated. The act of forgiveness is hard on both ends – for the person who’s asking and for the person who’s accepting.

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share this post
and let others
have a better understanding of your
Apology language !

untitled_ ?=S

2010-12-09T13:28:00.003+08:00

saw ppl posted this on FB
"jing dian" wor..
hhmmnn..
well. Just share some here la..

=]

这个世界上最残忍的一句话，
不是对不起，也不是我恨你，
而是，
我们再也回不去。

就是这样再简单不过的一句话，
生生的将两个原本亲密的人隔为疏离。

爱总是会使我们有太多期许：
希望长久，希望不会分别，希望占有和实现。

而最终只是觉得有些许厌倦，不知道该往哪里去。
爱情就是这样，
有些人会慢慢遗落在岁月的风尘里，
哭过，
笑过，
吵过，
闹过，
再恋恋不舍
也都只是
曾经。

女人好比梨，外甜内酸。
吃梨的人不知道梨的心是酸的，因为吃到最后就把心扔了，
所以男人从来不懂女人的心。

男人就好比洋葱，想要看到男人的心就需要一层一层去剥！
但在剥的过程中你会不断流泪，
剥到最后你才知道
洋葱
是
没心的。

爱情里最忌讳的是：
两人都幻想着彼此的未来，却也总惦记着对方的过去。

明明说着看开了，
放下了，
每次却总是不自觉的想起那个给与温暖的人。

每每又总是在微笑沉醉时看到了现实，
想到了伤痛，
然后，
冷的感觉再也暖和不起来了。
如此反复，
心，
终于累了，
现实就是这样。

我曾经醉过，
却又最终醒来，
我正在行走，
却
找不到
方向。

我想给你幸福，却走不进你的世界。
我想用我的全世界
来换取一张通往你的世界的入场券，
不过，
那只不过是我的一厢情愿而已。

我的世界，你不在乎；
你的世界，我被驱逐。
我真的喜欢你，闭上眼，
以为我能忘记，
但流下的眼泪，
却没有骗到自己。

时间会告诉你一切真相。
有些事情，要等到你渐渐清醒了，
才明白它是个错误；
有些东西，
要等到你真正放下了，
才知道它的
沉重。

男人对女人的伤害，不一定是他爱上了别人，
而是他在她有所期待的时候
让她失望，
在她脆弱的时候
没有给她
应有的安慰。

如果彼此出现早一点，也许就不会和另一个人十指紧扣。
又或者
相遇的再晚一点，晚到两个人在各自的爱情经历中慢慢地学会了
包容与体谅，
善待和妥协，
也许走到一起的时候，就不会那么轻易的放弃，任性地转身，放走了爱情。

但时间不会回头，
爱情
岂能“如果”？

如果不幸福,如果不快乐,那就放手吧；
如果舍不得,如果放不下,那就痛苦吧。

有些人不经意出现,意外的给你惊喜。
曾以为他是你生命中的神,可以拯救心灵的干渴，
其实错了,
有些人
注定只是人生里
匆匆行走
的过客。

你最爱的，往往没有选择你；
最爱你的，往往不是你最爱的；
而最长久的，偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的，
只是
在最适合的时间
出现的那个人。

维系一段感情的，不是坦白，
而是考虑到对方的感受，
有所保留。

让你哭到撕心裂肺的那个人，是你最爱的人；
让你笑到没心没肺的那个人，是最爱你的人。

So..

How true is this for you ?

The secret

2010-08-01T23:15:00.004+08:00

_The Law of Attraction_

Your life is
the physical manifestation of
the thoughts that go in your head..

An affirmative thought is
100 times powerful than
a negative thought

If you are feeling bad,
then you are creating a future
that is off track
from your desire

Everything you think,
everything your feel,
is creating your future

If you are worried, in fear..
then that's bringing more
into your life
throughout the day

Whatever you are thinking and feeling today,
is creating your future

Your thoughts
and
your feelings
CREATE
YOUR
LIFE

-The Secret-

2010-07-18T16:27:00.002+08:00

I'm having
swelling
on my
left
eye
.
.
.

arh !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And it looks like this .. O.o ??

T_________T

2010-07-18T16:14:00.002+08:00

popularly known as
Mr. Steven Tan
in Sunway..

or

ZF
in Malacca..

Happy
Belated birthday

to you !!!

;)

Happy belated birthday =)

2010-07-18T15:57:00.003+08:00

"I'm a bit nervous here.."

"I wish..I wish.."

nice post ;)

preparing his speech..
"erm..first of all......."

while speech-ing
"second of all..."

" I'm finally 19 ! "

snap us pulak.. ==

"erm..where should I look ? "

" oh..here.. "

say cheese ~

happy belated birthday
big guy
=)

All I can say is.. O-M-G ?

2010-06-19T23:23:00.004+08:00

I'm addicted to computer in these 2 days
I know I shouldn't do that
but..
you know..
sometimes...
I just cant help it !!
couldn't resist the temptation~~

Well...I should be using the comp to finish up the R&D stuff
(have to hand it up when school reopens, which will be next Monday T_T )

The "Things" that I've done in these 2 days .....

online (but I always appear to be offline =P)
Face-ing the "book" = fb
watched 超级星光大道 season 5 & 6
searched for songs
as well as lyrics =D
and piano music sheets =X
while doing my R&D stuff =.=

This was the conversation that I had with 1 of my fb friend..

CBR : Then you should spend more time on your favorite subjects like pa, chem, phy, maths..which one is your favorite ?

ET : None...

CBR : Fantastic answer ! Then how do you study ?

ET : That's why lo...T.T

CBR : How's your marks ?

ET : Is like the heart beat.. T__T *in short, it was a very very very bad result..

*people was expecting that I'll get 60/70/80/90 marks -__________-!
Coz I'm in the 1st class..
I shouldn't be staying in that class actually...
"Teachers~ it was a big mistake for me to stay at there.."

CAN I SPELL...
S-T-R-E-S-S !?

T______T

thankiu @.@

....

2010-06-12T14:55:00.001+08:00

BY2 愛上你

什麼都不要懂只想繼續做夢
害怕醒來以後握不住你的手
是誰太不成熟沒體諒彼此感受
我不停尋找著理由解釋分手

心好空像沒溫度的氣球
我的靈魂困在回憶中動也不能動

愛上你不需要理由你到底懂不懂
可是懷念竟比失去還要更難受
噢〜愛讓我想起你的時候
淚禁不住滑落
可惜你永遠都不會懂

什麼都不要懂只想繼續做夢
害怕醒來以後握不住你的手
如果同一秒鐘你也想起了我
心只要能微微顫抖就已足夠

愛上你不需要理由你到底懂不懂
可是懷念竟比失去還要更難受
噢〜愛讓我想起你
的時候淚禁不住滑落
或許我永遠都看不透

愛上你不需要理由你到底懂不懂
傷心快樂在回憶中反复的交錯
噢〜愛讓我想起你
的時候淚禁不住滑落
可惜你永遠都不會懂

放心我還會好好的過
......

BIG SALES !!

2010-06-10T11:50:00.005+08:00

Went shopping with Yin chiu and Wwl at DP
We're hunting for the great sales actually =.=

Yin chiu and I were so out of control that time..
our hands were full of clothes
*especially at the Padini Fair

Cheese taking pics for cheese..
and they'll always say ..
"SAY PEOPLE !!! "
LOL !

_From brands outlet_

_From Padini Group Fair_

BIG SALES !!!
UP TO 70% DISCOUNT !!!

RM 9.00

RM20.70

RM9.00 !
REGRET FOR NOT BUYING THIS T.T

RM20.70

RM32.70

overall clothes that I've bought..
5 shirts from the fair
2 shirts from brands outlet
=)

the original prices...

after the discount...
RM 89.10
for 5 shirts from the fair~
hohohoho...

finally bought 1 sun glasses !!
Wwl chose it for me
=P

Happy shopping girls !!
=D

Muet Night 2010

2010-06-10T11:20:00.004+08:00

Trying out my "card dealer" costume

-Just before the event-

Me, Onglai, Ah Mok

Wwl, Sabrina, Me

Me + Kada ^^

At the back stage..
my creepy look~

Finally
Our class won !!!
We got 1st place for the night =)
happy pics after winning =D

Samson crying like a baby..

_u 6 p 1_

Glad to have you guys there

2010-05-27T18:03:00.005+08:00

I was burning the midnight oil again
will be having chemistry paper 2 on the next day

suddenly dad said : " There's someone outside there..I think they're your friend ."

I was kinda shocked that time
is already 11.30 pm ++
who's that??

well...

I saw them..

(K.song & Li chi =D)

appearing in front of my gate

and they bought TOFU HUA for me !!

[[They first brought it to WS then I'm the 2nd..
next .. Yks & Robin]]

It was exam season..
We're stressed , tired, feel like giving up that time...

suddenly comes this..

THANKS A LOT BRO !!!

gandong..
T.T

*bukan main ada semangat selepas makan ! =P

thankiu again

Baptism

2010-05-09T19:40:00.003+08:00

During..

After..

[[my wet hair~ + my very very very small eyes~]] T.T

From left : Uncle Ho, me, Virginia, Uncle Loh

Me & dad ^^

Baptism

2010-05-02T20:12:00.002+08:00

I'm late again !
planned to take a 15mins nap..but it ended up...for an hour !

I'm a sleeping beast~ muahaha....
I think I have to set more alarms next time.....

The service starts at 6pm and I'm shocked when I wake up at 5.58pm =.=!

But I cant rush out agn this time...
I'll have to wait for my dad.. to prepare tea...
This time I cant say "no.." and I have to eat before I go out..

( remember my accident ? that was because... I didn't take my lunch, and I'm in a hurry to go for tuition T.T )
So, I cant afford to repeat that same mistake again..

Ended up reaching my church at 6.45pm T.T
I'm so late rite? I know...=.=

15mins later, Virginia and I went to change and then prepare for the baptism =)
We were kinda nervous that time... lol

Will be uploading the pics and video next time !

-Walk in newness of life-

Head-on Collision =X

2010-04-30T21:40:00.003+08:00

I was rushing to tuition agn...

TIME : around 3.40pm

THE PLACE : A junction not far away from my house

WRONG PARTY : Me...

MY MISTAKE : my car crossed over to the opposite lane !!!

As a result.....

Accident = Head-on collision between my Viva and the blue Kancil

the damage.....

my Kemek Viva......
(driver sit and tayar)

anyone injured ?
NO...... =)

-Got scolded very badly by my dad
-Cried out awhile as well

erm...further details..
I shall not discuss any further here =X

I'm not "In The Mood"

sorry...

I _hate this part

2010-04-18T13:15:00.002+08:00

Well well well... is Chlorophyll time ~ 1-7pm
I really want to go ! but.. I haven finish my hw =.=
unlike most of them..they can really finish their hw in the shortest time..
so..they can go and enjoy !
haiz...cant deny the fact that I'm a Slow learner.. T.T

Now, 2nd case...

I'm being "convinced~" by a lot of ppl to go for the PD trip...
"Are u going for the PD trip ? "
"erm..still not sure..."
"go la..go la..... Skip tuition once only ma..nvm de la..."

(have been answering this question for dunno how many times and... I'm stressed. thankiu.. )

want to thank Michelle for being so considering...

She understands my situation..my stress..
Thank you Michelle !!!! * gandong gandong...T.T *

Of course..if I dun have any tuition on that day, I'll go la for sure ...
But the problem is... I still have Physic tuition on Wesak day =.=

And according to my estimation.. He'll be teaching the chapter on Capacitor (according to 1 of my senior.. mostly girls dun like that chapter )
Which is quite true... I'm struggling with that chapter..and that will be the chap that I curse the most =x

So..

PHYSIC TUITION Vs PD TRIP

choose 1.....

and u know...
I hate choosing....

because....

aku ada masalah confusion~~~
yang sangat serious..

Sekian, terima kasih.
=)

CGPA

2010-04-02T16:31:00.004+08:00

After the maths period, we were all walking back to the classroom.
First, we saw a lot of ppl gathering around the F6 notice board.

I'm sure that is not a good news.
It was our form 6 monthly test result !
the CGPA of all the students was listed there.

So I found out mine and I was shocked that time !
ELLEN TAY 2.25

WHAT !!!???
THAT'S NOT MY MARK!

I told Mr.Kua that there must be some mistakes made...
my cgpa is wrong...
But he just said that he is not sure as the marks are all calculated using the computer..so, it is impossible to go wrong..

T___________T

as u guys can see...
I was so emo that time... =.= *sorry ~*
Kept on thinking what is wrong with my results?
Izt true that I'm the one who calculated the marks wrongly ?

Unfortunately, the mistake was actually found in the report card =.=

Physic 59 (B) 3.00
it supposed to be 61 (B+) 3.33

I know some of u may think that ..

"aiyo..come on la..is just a monthly test ~nvm la.... "
"Is only a difference of a few points ma~ nvm la.... "

BUT, to tell u the truth..
I'm actually very particular abt MARKS... *wink wink =D

Besides, I heard that there are many mistakes made in that paper =.=
Some even go and argue with Mr.Chu abt that...

but...after arguing for 1 hr... the result is still the same...
kesian kesian.....

P/S : hope that I will be able to change my results.

WARNING

2010-03-18T23:35:00.003+08:00

I just screamed at my lil bro just now =.=

he just did one of the THINGS THAT I CANT STAND THE MOST !

NEVER EVER TRY TO TOUCH ME WITH YOUR WET HANDS ON MY SHIRT !

I REPEAT ! DO NOT TRY THAT ON ME...

I'LL GET VERY VERY VERY MAD + PEK CHEK if u do so !!!

Because he did...that's why he got scolded like mad by me...

I Changed my shirt immediately after that...

Seriously cannot stand it ! that is so irritating !!

PS : I admit that I have a very low irritability ;)

So Yesterday

BAD DAY!

2012 U6P1 团拜

His 21st birthday

18th Jan

Haaaiihhh shall be the title

Christmas

Good Days ;)

2011 FGHT - Faculty Night

Padini Year-End SALES

You Are the Apple of My Eye

Photos spotted !

It will rain..

Desaru

Peek-a-Boo~

Sunday School Camp 2011

Shop shop

初恋这件小事

U know what?

Farewell gifts

那些年

Last day at Ismeca

Shopping mood

Farewell for them..

Happenings

Is released..

The Midnight Monday

Fly me to the moon

lappie

Let's runaway with me..

My U8 team

Fyi

Meanwhile..

Easter Conference @ Joo Chiat

The launching

Sunday School Picnic Day :)

the Escape

Story of Me & the cockroach

During The Rabbit Year

Lucky ?

AWESOME Penang Trip !

=D

What to do ?

The Five Languages of Apology

Expressing Regret

Accept Responsibility

Make Restitution

Genuinely Repent

Request Forgiveness

untitled_ ?=S

The secret

_The Law of Attraction_

Happy belated birthday =)

All I can say is.. O-M-G ?

....

BIG SALES !!

Muet Night 2010

Glad to have you guys there

Baptism

Baptism

Head-on Collision =X

I _hate this part

CGPA

WARNING